Happiness- for self or others???

Recently I had been in a turmoil- as to how we stay happy. Is it the way to keep doing good for others, or do things according to them and be happy seeing them happy? 'Them'  here can be family, friends or else. Or is it we do what we want to do? that can make us happy. It is seriously a confusion, at least for me, for we feel sad when we see them sad but it cannot be always true vice versa. 

I feel I was wrong before in keeping myself happy in other's happiness. I myself too want to be happy just for myself. Without compromising on my terms, I want things to happen in my way. I believe the taste of that happiness will be different.

Lest as said, I look forward to be just happy!!!! :)

Choices??

It is really hard to say that we live our lives on our terms and according to the choices we made. Of course, when we are young and full of enthusiasm, we always take the responsibility of making good and bad choices and live up to it.

I might not be that old, but lately I have realized, actually we really do not make any choice of our own. 90% of the times it is life which brings to you what is actually to be meant in your life. We think- "Oh my Gosh! what a great choice of a career or partner we made.", "We are so lucky to decide on this.", etc etc. But all this time we are living in an illusion to be honest.

The rest of 10% is mostly eaten up by the brain wash and feeding by family, friends and so ans so. I think we are just allowed to decide on only 2% of the decision, which is likely to without an option and just a willingness to take what is offered by life.

Let's try to accept it as early as we can to avoid any illusions and misconceptions.

Good Luck with life!!

Hurt!!!

Hurt is something you cannot define in words!

It is a deep feeling which crushes you from inside, more and more, every time you get hurt. And when you are hurt in "Love", it's worst of all. When you feel that heaviness in your heart and just can't stop thinking about "what just went wrong?", you cannot hold onto be normal. And the people around us try to console us with words like 'let it go', 'its happens', 'I understand' and all that... but the truth is- when hurt takes chances on them even they are in same shoes as ours!!!

I know I am hurt right now. And I know no one can ever get what's on my mind and how I feel?

But I only have to deal with it. Only I can heal myself walking along the path of faith, rest is just a waste.

The only point I want to say here is- never ever hurt anyone. I understand we are all humans and can hurt others intentionally and unintentionally- but atleast you can make other person understand your point of view in a calmer way so that they don't get hurt much. 

Everyone is special and so are their feelings. So Respect them, love them and don't hurt them.

Give Happiness, Stay Happy!!!!